The goings on about Brittany Murphy’s Death, Funeral and memorial continues to be quite strange. Her husband just out of the blue canceled a fundraisng memorial in Brittany’s name.
Brittany Murphy‘s husband has suddenly called off the fundraising party he was throwing in her honor tomorrow night — but the man who pulled the plug isn’t saying why.
via www.tmz.com
Brittany Murphy Memorial image
Simon Monjack had his new Brittany Murphy Foundation (arts in childhood education) EVENT scheduled for Thursday. By cancelling the event suddenly Monjack continued his strange actions around his deceased wife”s death.
Funeral Industry| Funeral News Blog By Your Funeral Guy
The other day I had a significant E-mail exchange with the former 2003 CEO Of Burr Oak Cemetery the memo exposed by Chuck Goudie Of ABC Local last Friday Night. The Email Exchange is presented here-there is no editorial on this in this post beyond the E-mails.
From: “SLIVY@xxx.com” <SLIVY@xxx.com>
To: YourFuneralGuy@yahoo.com
Sent: Tue, February 2, 2010 11:12:54 AM
Subject: Do You Ever Read The Background Information on The “News” You Pass Along?
The Memo Clearly points to a Perpetua INC, cover up of known Grave desecration with an effort to hide the info from ILLINOS COMPTROLLER OFFICE EMPLOYEE DAVID FOLEY. Perpetua is a Funeral and cemetery company owner the of Burr Oak Cemetery (Scandal). SHOW ME WHERE?
THE LATEST INFORMATION REVEALS PERPETUA INC AND SILVY EDMONDS COTTON ATTEMPTING TO COVER UP GRAVE DESECRATION, AND POSSIBLE GRAVE ROBBING at BURR OAK CEMETERY. SHOW ME WHERE?
Astute lawyers and victims have included Perpetua Inc and Silvy Cotton in their lawsuits. ARE YOU ENCOURAGING PEOPLE TO SUE ME BASED ON YOUR FAULTY ANALAYSIS?
The 2003 Memo related to possible desecrations of graves that I uncovered which I believed to have occurred over decades; a point that would be clear to anyone who read the complete files I submitted to the FBI several months ago, but should be clear to anyone who can read the Memo that was posted online. Since it was I who investigated the finding in 2003, and it was I who contacted our attorney to find out who in the Comptroller’s office we should report the incident to; and it was I who was told to contact David Foley in the Comptroller’s office; and since it was I who contacted David Foley and set up the meeting that the Comptroller’s office confirms did occur; and since it was I who provided the Memo to the FBI several months ago who the hell are you to even suggest that I hid any information from David Foley or the Comptroller’s office? Did you read any of the information? I have consulted with a couple of people in the industry who told me to just ignore you since you are viewed as somewhat of a hack, however, my attorney is concerned that you are slandering my name and character. If it doesn’t stop I WILL take legal action against you.
If you were anything of a Consumer advocate you should be questioning whether there was a scandal in July 2009 at all. Does it seem strange to you that the crime scene and the area I identified in 2003 are one and the same? You should be questioning why Burr Oak Cemetery was INVADED with the entire cemetery turned upside down, when a cemetery with almost twice as many allegations in California during the same timeframe didn’t suffer a similar approach. Find the answer to those questions and then you can consider yourself relevant. Otherwise, stop trying to turn facts into gossip.
Sincerely,Slivy Edmonds Cotton (This is my correct name)
Slivy Edmonds Cotton (This is my correct name)
Here is the First Response:
Hello,
The memo clearly reveals grave desecrations -and that you did not think the info would go to the comptroller-although you clearly placed the blame on previous owner. There is no evidence that you revealed the problem to Law enforcement authorities. In fact what is stated is that you did not think the comptroller would find out.
Show Me answer “I am not sure he would want to report anything to the Comptroller that would be unpleasant”
I am totally in my rights to my opinion on this memo posted at the Capital Fax blog
I am not encouraging people to sue you- people are suing you which is all that I stated.
I apologize for spelling your name wrong.It is being Corrected.I have reported extensively on The other Scandal Eden Memorial Park and the antics of Service Corporation International.
Your Funeral Guy
Here is my second response
Tue, February 2, 2010 12:59:42 PM
From: …
To: SLIVY@xxx.com Your Funeral Guy.
From: “SLIVY@xxx.com” <SLIVY@xxx.com>
To: yourfuneralguy@yahoo.com
Sent: Tue, February 2, 2010 1:38:57 PM
Subject: Re: Do You Ever Read The Background Information on The “News” You Pass Along
In a message dated 2/2/2010 12:15:11 P.M. US Mountain Standard Time, yourfuneralguy@yahoo.com writes:
Hello,The memo clearly reveals grave desecrations -and that you did not think the info would go to the comptroller-although you clearly placed the blame on previous owner. There is no evidence that you revealed the problem to Law enforcement authorities. In fact what is stated is that you did not think the comptroller would find out. This is just patently false. Perhaps you read you just don’t understand what you read.
I said the attorney to whom our attorney was speaking who was a friend of the Comptroller might not might not want to report something to the Comptroller that might be unpleasant. It was our job to get to the Comptroller and that is what happened.Show Me answer “I am not sure he would want to report anything to the Comptroller that would be unpleasant”I am totally in my rights to my opinion on this memo posted at the Capital Fax blog
Your opinions don’t reflect the facts. Have you read the statements from the Comptroller’s office that confirm that I met with them; disclosed that we had found remains there and sought their advice on how to proceed. What part of that leads you to an OPINION that I was trying to cover up anything and keep anything from David Foley?You opinion is baseless and is slander. The Memo is part of a 15 page document that lays out a plan of action and recommendations to which you obviously haven’t been privy to. Notwithstanding that the Memo you did read DOES NOT lead to your opinion.Slivy Edmonds Cotton
I am not encouraging people to sue you- people are suing you which is all that I stated.
I apologize for spelling your name wrong.It is being Corrected.I have reported extensively on The other Scandal Eden Memorial Park and the antics of Service Corporation International.
Your Funeral Guy
Re: Do You Ever Read The Background Information on The “News” You Pass Along…
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Robert Burkhardt <yourfuneralguy@yahoo.com>
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| To: | SLIVY@xxx.com |
Hello,
The matter clearly was not reported to law Enforcement-by you or the Comptroller’s Office. Crimes Committed were not reported. AS I HAVE STATED OVER AND OVER- THE COMPTROLLER IS NOT THE PROPER AUTHORITY.
THE SHERIFF WAS NOT INFORMED.Working through the comptroller was a cover up in itself- The comptroller had no authority in Cemetery operations.(only preneed trust funds).
This is all over the news and my blog. Whether you realize it or not the Perpetua Lawyer, had you cover up.He knew the authority of the Comptroller was limited to preneed funds.Your Lawyer advised you to cover up 1.By Going to The Comptrollers Office 2). By Going to Foley, Dan Hynes may not have been told about it. There is no proof that comptroller investigators took the info anywhere even with a meeting.“I am not sure he would want to report anything to the Comptroller that would be unpleasant“( The investigative meeting angle has been played out before in Illinois Funeral Directors association Theft with no appropriate action or reporting to higher ups).
As far as e-mails from the comptrollers office-they are posted on my blog. They Continue on Both Burr Oak and the Illinois Funeral Directors Association. That makes me a Hack?
Like it or not you covered up.
Funeral Industry|Funeral News| Funeral blog by Your Funeral Guy
Cremation is now at 39% rate Nationwide in the US and is becoming increasingly popular.Cremation is the best way to come in under the average cost of a funeral and save on Funeral Expenses.
The recession has hurt the funeral industry, and as a result folks have been turning to cremation faster than expected.Many Funeral Directors will go to great lengths to raise your cremation costs. Some pride themselves on their ability to raise cremation costs above that of a traditional funeral.
Before about 1980, just 4% of families were choosing cremation over burial. Now, 39% select cremation, and in the next 15 years, the percentage is expected to approach 60%, according to the Cremation Association of North America. The increase is being driven in part by cremation’s cheaper cost, and in part by the fact that fewer extended families are rooted in one specific place anymore—which means they don’t live close enough to visit a loved one’s gravesite.
via online.wsj.com
Now what folks are doing is scattering ashes wherever and whenever they want (wildcat scattering)from dropping them from a plane to scattering them at Disney World on their Favorite ride.
Many states have laws against scattering ashes in public places or on private property. But I have never heard one story of a person arrested for Scattering Ashes.
WSJ From Flickr under the creative commons license from
Funerall Industry|Funeral Blog by Your Funeral Guy
Illinois Funeral Directors are suing various arms of the State of Illinois, IFDA, and Merrill Lynch.
The results are in Illinois Burr Oak Cemetery Scandal and Illinois Governor’s race. “Il Gov declares victory challenger vows fight.” In the Burr Oak Cemetery situation the lady who wrote the 2003 Burr oak Cemetery Scandal “cover up” Memo vowes to fight as well.
The results in Each matter is unclear.
There may be a recount of the Illinois Governor’s race but there will be a recounting of the Burr Oak Cemetery Scandal at this blog because the Perpetua CEO has vows a fight about her memo. The CEO has come out fighting in a news report and started a fight about the memo with with Your Funeral Guy 0n the Burr Oak Cemetery Disaster 2003 coverup.
The close Governors race was reported at the Huffington Post.
With just about 5,000 votes separating incumbent Governor Pat Quinn and state Comptroller Dan Hynes in the race for the Illinois Democratic nomination for governor, Quinn claimed victory early Wednesday while Hynes said it’s not over yet.via www.huffingtonpost.com
The Fighting 2003 Perpetua CEO came out Fighting About her “2003 cover up”memo revealed in the Governor’s Race was revealed Tuseday night by an ABC Reporter Chuck Goudie:
“I just returned last night from a two week vacation in Dubai and Uganda,” Ms. Edmonds Cotton told the I-Team Tuesday afternoon. “I never expected to be in the middle of a primary race in Illinois. I am disappointed that my Memo (sic) has been used as political fodder” she wrote in an email response to our request for an interview last week.via abclocal.go.com the words of Slivy Cotton
A Video of this report can Be Viewed Here.
Former Burr Oak Cemeterry Former CEO Fight your Funeral Guy E-Mail.
From: “SLIVY@xxx.com ” <SLIVY@xxx.com>
To: YourFuneralGuy@yahoo.com
Sent: Tue, February 2, 2010 11:12:54 AM
Subject: Do You Ever Read The Background Information on The “News” You Pass Along?
The Memo Clearly points to a Perpetua INC, cover up of known Grave desecration with an effort to hide the info from ILLINOS COMPTROLLER OFFICE EMPLOYEE DAVID FOLEY. Perpetua is a Funeral and cemetery company owner the of Burr Oak Cemetery (Scandal).
SHOW ME WHERE?
THE LATEST INFORMATION REVEALS PERPETUA INC AND SILVY EDMONDS COTTON ATTEMPTING TO COVER UP GRAVE DESECRATION, AND POSSIBLE GRAVE ROBBING at BURR OAK CEMETERY.
SHOW ME WHERE?
Astute lawyers and victims have included Perpetua Inc and Silvy Cotton in their lawsuits.
ARE YOU ENCOURAGING PEOPLE TO SUE ME BASED ON YOUR FAULTY ANALAYSIS?
The 2003 Memo related to possible desecrations of graves that I uncovered which I believed to have occurred over decades; a point that would be clear to anyone who read the complete files I submitted to the FBI several months ago, but should be clear to anyone who can read the Memo that was posted online. Since it was I who investigated the finding in 2003, and it was I who contacted our attorney to find out who in the Comptroller’s office we should report the incident to; and it was I who was told to contact David Foley in the Comptroller’s office; and since it was I who contacted David Foley and set up the meeting that the Comptroller’s office confirms did occur; and since it was I who provided the Memo to the FBI several months ago who the hell are you to even suggest that I hid any information from David Foley or the Comptroller’s office? Did you read any of the information? I have consulted with a couple of people in the industry who told me to just ignore you since you are viewed as somewhat of a hack, however, my attorney is concerned that you are slandering my name and character. If it doesn’t stop I WILL take legal action against you.
If you were anything of a Consumer advocate you should be questioning whether there was a scandal in July 2009 at all. Does it seem strange to you that the crime scene and the area I identified in 2003 are one and the same? You should be questioning why Burr Oak Cemetery was INVADED with the entire cemetery turned upside down, when a cemetery with almost twice as many allegations in California during the same timeframe didn’t suffer a similar approach. Find the answer to those questions and then you can consider yourself relevant. Otherwise, stop trying to turn facts into gossip.
Sincerely…..
Slivy Edmonds Cotton (This is my correct name)”
NOW THE SHORT ANSWER TO BURR OAK CEMETERY COVER UP MEMO IS:
THE MEMO IS A COVER UP BECAUSE COTTON AND PERPETUA WENT TO THE COMPTROLLER WHO HAD NO AUTHORITY IN THE MATTER. The memo or memos should have gone to Law Enforcement.
The Long Answer will follow.
Funeral Industry|Funeral Blog By Your Funeral Guy.
Nice to be complemented by some in a failing Funeral Industry as a hack.
Your Funeral Guy’s e-mail from Cotton Original To this post.
The memo from the Capitol Fax Blog can be viewed here:
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